Kindness is what some people naturally have and others develop it. Either way, kindness is a attribution that can be taken for granted, making people feel bad, asking consistently knowing you will get the response you want. An act of kindness is an immediate decision majority of the time. Respect people decisions, at the same time be stronger enough to say NO! Sometimes we do things to please the other person, were all human and shouldn’t feel bad for something you don’t want to. We have all been guilty of this, sometimes we may need to give ourselves time to assess the situation before making a decision..
Treat others as you want to be treated, also understand everyone has different needs in some instances..